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I didn't have good parents. But I known what a good parent does. Protect. Even if that means protecting from.
Joe Goldberg about his biological distant parents.

Raphael "Phil" Passero is one of the two overarching antagonists (alongside Ivan Mooney) of Netflix's You. He is the biological father of Joe Goldberg and was addicted to alcohol and drugs. He and his girlfriend, Sandy Goldberg did not got along at all, having arguments all the time, in addition to having several brief separations. He is portayed by Billy Lush.

Biography[]

Backstory[]

Raphael was presumably born and raised in the state of New York where he met Sandy Goldberg.

Season 2 (Flashbacks)[]

Raphael's death

Raphael's death

Everything got worse when Sandy became pregnant with a boy who Sandy named Joe. The relationship was always bad, but it got worse when Raphael discovered Sandy's betrayals with other men and turned to alcohol. Raphael frequently beat his girlfriend until nine-year-old Joe decides to kill his biological father in order to save him and his biological mother.

Appearences[]

Season 1 (1/10)[]

Season 2 (3/10)[]

Season 3 (1/10)[]

Trivia[]

  • In the first book, Raphael is described as being Catholic.
  • His surname are of Italian origin.
  • His name in the books is "Ronnie Passero".

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Season 1 Characters
Allison Mott | Annika Attwater | Anya Beck | Barry Salinger | Benji Ashby | Blythe | Bridey | Candace Stone | Claudia | Clyde Beck | Edward Beck | Elijah Thornton | Ethan Russell | Guinevere Beck | Ivan Mooney | Janice | Jimmy Stone | Joe Goldberg | Karen Minty | Lynn Lieser | Maddie Johnson | Nancy Whitesell | Nicky Angevine | Officer Martin | Officer Nico | Officer Warren | Paco | Paul Leahy | Peach Salinger | Raj | Roger Stevens | Ron Baker | Ross | Yuri | Whitesell Siblings

Season 2 Characters
Alec Grigoryan | Calvin | Candace Stone | Dale | David Fincher | Delilah Alves | Dottie Quinn | Ellie Alves | Forty Quinn | Gabe Miranda | Gigi | Henderson | James Kennedy | Jasper Krenn | Joe Goldberg | Love Quinn | Lucy Sprecher | Milo Warrington | Natalie Engler | Nicky Angevine | Rachel | Raphael Passero | Ray Quinn | Sandy Goldberg | Sofia | Sunrise Cummings | Will Bettelheim

Season 3 Characters
Acacia Kim | Alan Brigham | Andrew Tucker | Brandon | Cary Conrad | Conrad Brothers | Chandra | Dante Ferguson | Derek | Dottie Quinn | Fiona | Gil Brigham | Harriet Goodwin | Henry Goldberg | Jackson Newhall | Jacob Goldberg | Jean Peck | Joe Goldberg | Juliette Goodwin | Kiki | Lansing | Laura Kealy | Leez | Love Quinn | Margaret Brigham | Marienne Bellamy | Matthew Engler | Mimi | Natalie Engler | Paulie | Ruthie Falco | Ryan Goodwin | Sandy Goldberg | Sherry Conrad | Theo Engler | Travis | Wes | Zoe Brigham

Season 4 Characters
Adam Pratt | Beatrice | Blessing Bosede | Blue Cahill | Connie | Cynthia Bell | Dawn Brown | Duke of Kingston-upon-Hull | Edward | Elliot Tannenberg | Emma | Gemma Graham-Greene | Greta Galvin | Guinevere Beck | Hugo McNamara | Jace Pratt | Jamie | Joe Goldberg Juliette Goodwin | Kate Galvin | Love Quinn | Malcolm Harding | Marienne Bellamy | Monifa Sunday | Nadia Farran | Niko Leandros | Peter Andrews | Phoebe Borehall-Blaxworth | Rhys Montrose | Roald Walker-Burton | Simon Soo | Sophie Soo | Steve | Tom Lockwood | Vic

Season 5 Characters
Annika Attwater | Louise Flannery | Belinda | Bob Cain | Cary Conrad | Clayton Angevine | Clyde Beck | Dominique | Dottie Quinn | Ethan Russell | Gretchen Jacobs | Guinevere Beck | Harrison Jacobs | Henry Goldberg | Joe Goldberg | Kate Lockwood | Kenton | Maddie Lockwood | Marienne Bellamy | Marquez | Nadia Farran | Officer Cody | Paco | Phoebe Borehall-Blaxworth | Phoenix | Reagan Lockwood | Sawyer | Sherry Conrad | Teddy Lockwood | Will Bettelheim

References[]

  1. Raphael: Where you been?
    Sandy: At the market.
    Raphael: For four hours?
    Sandy: You should ask your son. He wanted to play hide-and-seek and scary Mommy. I'm gonna get the rest of the groceries. -Raphael and Sandy, The Good, The Bad & The Hendy: Season 2
  2. You (Book)
  3. Joe tells Love in Love, Actually that he was nine years old when he killed for the first time, which puts Raphael's death from September 19, 1997 to September 18, 1998, Since Joe was born on September 19, 1988.